This week’s Wisdom Wednesday post is a message/ lecture/reminder to myself as well as the rest of my readers. Normally my Wednesday post is written well ahead of time and scheduled for 7:00 AM EST every Wednesday morning. As you can see, It’s a couple of hours late. Being tardy isn’t like me. My kids used to get annoyed that I was always 20-30 minutes early for every appointment or event, but now, as adults, they’re the exact same way. Actually, there are only two reasons that I would ever be late for something. The first reason would be my untimely death (sorry to be morbid); the second, would be that I’ve completely over-extended myself. Fortunately, this late post is the result of the second.
Jam-packing too much into life has always been a problem of mine. Oddly, it’s not from lacking the ability to say “no” if someone is attempting to take advantage of my time; I worked that dilemma out in my 20s. My over-extension has more to do with my high energy level, my general exuberance for life and the joy that I get from being with, and helping out, others. I love to have things to look forward to. I like my days to be full of activities and productivity. This may stem from the work ethic my parents taught me, or from watching their lives end too early and concluding, first-hand, that life truly is short, so cram in all you can.
I realize that being on-the-go and enjoying life isn’t a bad thing, it’s just a thing I need to manage it better. Time has a way of zooming by when you’re closing down Target with a friend, or staying up hours past bedtime drinking decaf tea and chatting with your adult daughter. Every weekend doesn’t need to be filled with home improvement chores, or activities and social events (often ones that I’ve created). Sometimes the person I need to say “no” to most often is myself. Busily enjoying the moment is fabulous, but so is rest and reflection. Time management isn’t about being early for everything; it’s about finding a balance so that you’re able to live peacefully.
Are you a master at managing your time? If so, please share your secrets in the comments below. 🙂
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